Friday, August 12, 2011

Elimination question round 1. Eliminate 10 from these?

Lol, nice to see you took my advice and shortened the list. I eliminate all except for "Dawn of the Dead" and "The Silence of the Lambs".

When will these horror remakes be out in theatres?

i know halloween 3 comes out in 2012, fright night comes out in august, but what about poltergeist, nightmare on elm street 2, friday the 13th 2, and pet sematary

Proofread my love story?

Take out the line "It was time to have a first crush" That doesn't make sense, take that line out. Take out the part "I can't believe my own brother would cause me to feel distress, Alex said" Alex wouldn't have felt distress, it was a normal question for Darwin to ask, there is not reason for Alex to feel distress here. Take that part out and leave the rest of what you said there. I love how you write Michelle as a strong woman, great job. She has her deal breakers in her relationship,, she sticks to them, Darwin changes for her deal breakers and she gives him another chance. Good writing there, very believable. Wait, what happened to first love, true love? Why didn't Alex move with Jane to the New Province? You have to work on your build up. I don't like the way you have a guy meet a girl one day, then profess his love for her and that is it. I think a guy meets a girl he likes, maybe he has to build up confidence to ask her out on a date, and it should take several dates before he professes his love to her. The characters need time to get to know each other, even if they know each other from the same town, the same school, dating is different, you need time to build up trust. Build up your story, drag it out. If a guy just comes up to me and says "I love you" it does not make sense that I am just going to drop everything I am doing and magically fall in love with him back and then the next day be married. A guy might ask me out, I might say yes, I would probably say no, but maybe the guy doesn't quit. Maybe he ask the girl out again and then she says yes, and they date several times and then when they get to know each other better, then he can say "I love you" I love you are words that are supposed to have meaning in a relationship, they are supposed to be special, and guys shouldn't just say them on a first date, a guy should say "I love you" at a special moment. If a guy just walked up to me and said "I love you" I would probably think he was crazy. Build up to the I love you moment, drag the romance out, build up to the moment, it should be special. A guy says I love you over a romantic dinner, he doesn't say I love you over a bag of groceries, but I like how you put buying groceries into the story. I Love the part where Alex learns from his failed relationships and doesn't quit Rosa. That part makes wonderful sense. Girls like it when a guy doesn't quit them. You have set ups in this story for future stories, so it is nice that the story doesn't have to end here.

Help. I want a relationship.?

This is difficult to admit. Usually on when posting this on a different website. I will expound on my past life, and explain how depression and social insecurity have plagued my existence from an ealy age. A lack of social contact leads to a lack of social contact. A pattern emerged where in my younger and more formative years I was focused more on not committing suicide that I was figuring out how to date or having sex. Essentially, thats what happened. When I left for university I burnt all of my bridges at home in the hopes for a better future in another state. I spent the first semester getting drunk with my fraternity. I had to leave the next semester due to dropping out of the fraternity; the story is complex. The old pattern of depression and isolation of high school repeated itself. To say that I hated the dorms would be an understatement. I succeed in moving out last year. Its a year that has been good to me; to say nothing of my anti-depressant prescription and yet. I am still a 23 year old who had never had a girlfriend and totally and utterly inexperienced at the arts of courtship or intimacy. I feel like I have to pack what should have been 10 years of learning into 1 year. Keeping in mind that in the dating marketplace I am horribly undervalued due to my inexperience. In essence: I realize that my life has been rather unusual for a scion of upper middle class parents who is attractive, well off, and (frankly, thank you books!) highly intelligent. I've coped by burying my past; all of it. While continuously not satisfied by my present conditions. Perhaps I have unrealistic expectations? Perhaps I don't have any idea what happiness, or normalcy, or satisfaction mean? But I want this, this simple one thing. I want a relationship. I deserve one. I want to kiss, fondle, love, stare into the eyes of another human being...the things that I deserve just as I deserve my scared dignity! But how?

Seattle - 3 or 4 days?

You should eb able to do it if you move quick. But don't rush yourself because a lot of the things are really interesting. When you go to Pike Place, make sure to try their salmon, it's the BEST.

Is it just me or are all step mothers unpleasant? and what should i do with mine?

Okay so here's my dilemma, i have a wonderful dad who married a completely unpleasant women. Basically it all started when i was in 7th grade and my step mom went snooping through my room and read my diary. Now as what a 12 or 13 year old girl who is upset with her step mom for complaining about turning a light switch on too loud and writes in her diary, " i sometimes wish she would go far far away." that doesnt really seem like an intelligent adult would start a war over that, but mine did. she swore i was out to get her. Now granted i felt bad that i hurt her feelings so i did try over the years to be nice and help out around the house, but it was never good enough. My step mom is a cold unhappy person. and its not just me she hates. she picks fights with my aunts, hates all my uncles, and complains about every one. My family has tried everything to counseling to vacation bonding. I have done everything i possibly can too, despite the fact she came at with a knife, spit on me, told me i should kill myself, and slammed me against a mirror when i was thirteen. My uncles and brother think im crazy for even pitying her still and trying to be nice. I need some outside the box opinions and advice, what do i do to make this woman like me? I tolerate her for one reason and one reason alone, my dad and baby sister. My dad is getting older and i dont want him to be alone all his life, and my baby sister who is technically my half sister from my dad and step mom, i love her with all my heart. and as having to be a child that was stuck in the middle of a nasty divorce, i would never want that for her. divorces hurt. Im almost 20 now and i still wish i had had a mother who knew how to love her family. so folks, what do i need to do? failure and giving up really isnt an option. i need to do something to make this unpleasant women back off a bit.

I'm a preteen and am I gay?

Ok well I'm really confused. So this is my dilemma, I'm 13 and I don't know if I'm gay or straight. Sometimes I dream about men but when I look at men I don't get hard but when i look at women I don't get hard. When I grow up, and try sex with women, then will I know for sure if I'm straight ( after puberty)

A Nightmare On Elm Street Question?

In the "A Nightmare On Elm Street" (2010) movie one of the character Quienten I think his name is says that someone starts seeing things and dreaming of stuff even if your awak after 70 hours, is that true? I cant remember what he called it either.

English Learner's question?

I think it means that he doesn't want to think that anyone so innocent would marry him for his money/power. By "value herself against" I think it pretty much means "sell herself for".

Sex first, love later?

Love should come first, but not the love you are thinking. You should have sex after you love someone not after you are married. Having compatibility during sex can make or break a relationship and waiting until you are married is negligent.

I am jealous of my husband's ex-wife?

Hi, I am 28 year old widow with no children who has recently gotten remarried. My new husband has also been married before and has three little boys by his ex-wife. The problem is that at times I feel jealous of her. We currently live in the house that my husband and his ex-wife bought together. She left two months after they moved in because they could not agree on finances.Some of her things pictures, home movies, letters ect.. are still in the home. I don't believe he knows that they are still in the house. I am jealous because she is the mother of his children. Although we do not have any chidlren now we do plan to have chidlren of our own in the furture. The fact that she finished school and I just started, she has his children, they bought this house together are all reason why I sometimes get jealous. Get this she doesn't even know that we are currently married. Also from what I heared I don't think she is over their reationship. I think that if she could make different decisons she would not have left the marriage. We had a very quick courtship before we got married and that I did not really have a chance to digest all that I was getting myself into. Although, I married a wonderful man and I know he loves me dearly. Even with all that I am thinking about desloving our marriage because I don't think I can handel this situation for much longer.

What are the best places and ways to advertise my wedding planning and event business? ?

Set up a low cost website as soon as possible, whilst you are networking in real life meetings, build a web presence. Join many of the top online wedding forums and be active on the net as well. You can generate good credible free advertising by writing good articles on a wedding theme and guest blogging on a popular wedding site.

What mascara should I use to prevent this from happening?

The best drugstore mascara ever is definitelycover girl lash blast. it is in an orange tube. you can get it almost anywhere for about 17$ (in aus) you can choose from many colours, i think there is very black otherwise the black one is still really dark. if you curl your lashes, i would get the waterproof version as it does the same thing but holds curl, because it is waterproof. It adds volume and length. hope this helps.. best answer? good luck! x

Writing a Research Paper on Courting and Courtly Love?

Any information you have on courting, courtly love, knightly courtship, etc. would be great and very helpful. I'm having a hard time finding search terms for a scholarly article search. Any help is greatly appreciated. Any links to anything you find would be great too. Thanks!

Does everyone truly have a soul mate?

I believe there's no real soul mate, it's just a luck of the draw if you manage to find someone who you connect with. It's a state of mind. People talk about how they "know" he/she is the one. They don't actually know, they have faith and high hopes based on the way the person makes them feel.

How do i get over my heart being broken please help me?

Trust me this happened to me before. Forget the guy. I was led on by a sleazeball player and trust me they're not worth the tears you should be the bigger person and talk to him or just forget he was ever in your life!

What do you think of this dress? and what type of shoes would you wear with it?

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What would you do to improve part two of this longish narrative poem?

I know this one, do I not? Wait! I must off to read the final part. It will leave me aching, right? In a puddle, dang you! (Stop laughing, Peter! I heard that!)

How do i get over my heart being broken please help me?

Trust me this happened to me before. Forget the guy. I was led on by a sleazeball player and trust me they're not worth the tears you should be the bigger person and talk to him or just forget he was ever in your life!

Nightmare on elm street?

I don't find the Nightmare on Elm Street movies scary at all, especially not when compared to Stephen King classics like Pet Semetary. If you wanna get freaked out, I recommend watching Pet Semetary I and II.

Advice on my diet dilemma?

Some may be fat, some may be water retention. Just try to get back to eating healthy and exercising. I've been trying to lose weight the past few months and have found that exercise is a lot more important and there really aren't any short cuts (at least there aren't any if you want to be healthy about it).

Unwanted Dry Humping Middle-Aged Man Dilemma Help!?

You are so right!!! This is definitely not okay. You really need someone to listen who is willing to help you with this. Talk to your mom again and tell her that you are uncomfortable and he scares you and you don't know what he will do next. If she still blows you off, you have to keep talking until someone cares enough to help you. Keep talking. Please do that - for you.

Does he want to marry me?

Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for over ten years we have two beautiful children together and I have a beautiful child from a previous relationship. We've lived together almost six years. The problem is that we r not married, He bought me an engagement ring on my 30th bday but has not brought up the subject of marriage since then on his own and when - ask if he wants too he says someday but doesn't say when and that he does love me he calls me his wife but I feel cheapened. I think I'm pushing this now because I will soon be 35 and I've seen a lot of my friends get married after shorter courtships then ours. I don't know what to do we (I) booked the date with the church for next march the priest would like to see us this week but he seems less than thrilled should I just cancel this weeding and continue our lives as is or should I get out? Because if he loved me he would be eager to officially make me his wife instead if just calling me that right? I have also told him that - want a small wedding because we can't afford a big one so no excuse rightPlease help

Elimination question round 1. Eliminate 30 movies?

No wonder you've posted it 3 times. Who wants to sit and read through all these movies and then type up 30 to eliminate? Takes way too much time.

Should I read into this any deeper?

I have the tendancy to read too deeply into things and such. But before i start my brain to figuring this out i want to bring it across to you guys. i've been dating this woman for a little more than a month and well, to say the least things have been very very interesting (more dramatic if anything). But anyway, we had a deep talk a couple days ago, I have a few issues w/ trust but have been working on it and have tried to commuincate w/ her before letting my mind wonder and she appreciates this....anyway, in the beginning of our courtship we spent alot of time together and I'd be at her house, w/ no problem. but recentl (past few weeks) she didnt want me at her home. this was brought up during our talk and she told me how she is attracted to me and doesnt want things too far (we haven't had intercourse yetbut have expressed our affection in other ways). she tells me how she "knows her" and so and so forth.....and well..... I don't know... i feel that we're both adults and wont let anything that we don't want to happen, to happen.... you know? she's never invited to her place for dinner.....and i don't know I thought when a woman is into a guy, atleast he comes over for dinner....

Thursday, August 11, 2011

When writing a royal themed fiction story, how accurate should I be?

I think its great you want to create your own country for the story but if you are going to base if off say the African culture I would do some research on African tribes and how they view social hierarchy, royalty, ceremonies, etc. If you are going to go the Hispanic route (which might be easier since I know nothing about Africa except its countries) I would look at the Aztec and Inca civilizations. Even though you are thinking Hispanic it might not hurt to look at the culture of Spain and Portugal as well as North and South America. You might want to also look at some Native American tribes. If you want to be a good writer you should want to have accurate sources. If you just mix cultures off the top of your head than some readers might get offended, like if you mixed all Native American war rituals and then claim they are a tribe in Quebec for the sake of the story. All professional writers, literature, film, plays do a lot of research to make sure the story is coherent.

Do you want or insist that I recycle?

We need to be responsible enough for our surroundings that we shouldn't need to be told what to do. We need to realize that our current waste land filling method is going to threaten our water supplies and compete with precious farm lands we need to grow food. We need to understand that the resources we take from the ground are finite and difficult to acquire. We need to comprehend how much of our precious water and energy is used to process and refine the raw materials to produce the goods we use. The costs of not recycling are far higher.

How did we survive when fireworks were legal?

Fireworks have been outlawed for decades here in my town, fire hazard for homeowners. We had a lot of fun experimenting with them back in the , blowing the bark off elm trees that had Dutch elm disease, shooting pop bottle rockets straight out towards a target, putting firecrackers down red ant beds and blowing them up, using smoke bombs to scare off mosquitoes for awhile so we could play in the yard. My favorites were snakes and smoking monkeys and parachutes. The worst thing that happened was stepping on a hot wire from a sparkler (because we wouldn't wear shoes in the summer outdoors). After that we kept a bucket with water to put the wires in.

Need some helpful advice on this dilemma?

If men aren't getting any sex with women, cheating is not the answer, breaking up with her and going for a woman who WILL have sex him is the answer.

Desktop or Laptop? I don't get the 20 character thing, it's really stupid.?

if i were you, id fix an old one NOW then get a new one for college in 3 years. itd be a waste to get it now then crash in a year. there is WAY more complicated homework in college, so you would need it more then. good luck! (id get a mac, for college. )

Getting married dilemma! Please help.?

My Fiance wants to run away and do it. I want my mother there. My dad left when I was little and I don't have any siblings. I'd like a big wedding with all my family there but I am compromising by just saying I want my mom there but he doesn't want that as he says it will snowball out of control. Help! advice if anyone has any. x

Chinese Elm Bonsai, or Juniper Bonsai?

I'm planning to order one of thies 2 trees from amazon.com and i wanted to ask someone witch one is better off indoors. Also my concern is: How does it ship?

Nothing scares me. please help.?

Not to worry. Just wait until you get out into the REAL World. Then you'll be plenty Terrified !! ;)

Job dilemma-To go for it or not?

Ive been doing catering work that pays 6 quid an hour and I work max. 3/4 days a week. I need a second part time for the summer to save up enough money to move into a new flat, and go on a 2 week holiday. Im earning around 120/130 pounds a week, but I had a job offer come up thats at a charity call centre that pay 7 pounds an hour for the first few months before you get a raise (my bf worked for them and said he left when he felt like the company was sucking people dry of their money) I dont know if I could do that as a job but I have to decide quick as I said Id go meet up with them tomorrow and go for training saturday and sunday. What do you think?

I need to get over this... advice?

So when I was a little kid one of my biggest memories was walking into my cousins room and he was watching a freddy krueger movie. I got scared and asked him what it was and he told me it was real footage filmed about people who hear the story of the guy and he then comes after them and thats what all scary movies are. At the times he saw it as a harmless joke. But to this day I am scared to death of all older scary movies. Especially Nightmare on Elm Street. Very few people know this. I cannot watch them at all. I have left peoples houses cuz they were getting ready to watch one. Well, I promised this good friend of mine I'd watch the original Nightmare on Elm Street with him. I am for real, freaking out! Any advice on how to get over this fear??? I know they won't really come out of the TV or anything like that, Im not 4. But it still really freaks me out. I need help. Or is it just too late for me?

Do I go with my heart or do I go with my mind?

I am so confused and need desperate help. I am a 23 yr old married woman to a man that is what any woman could ask for. Great personality, caring, dedicated, but the main problem that he has is that once we went from a relationship to marriage everything changed. He stopped caring for himself to be with me 24/7. I feel like Im choking and unable to do anything on my own other than work without him being there all of the time. He stopped dressing nice, began to gain weight, and worst of all stopped being confident and independent. Everything had to be under my decision. He could not make decisions on his own. I feel miserable getting home when all we do is argue about everything. Its like things go in one ear and out the other. I was rushed into this marriage by the persuasion of my parents. All they want is stability for me. Find a man that can give me what they never had which is understandable but my philosophy is also that you have to be able to love the person deeply as well. I know that love does not pay bills but I would rather be happy and broke than rich and miserable. I will go to school and finish my career. I want to make money on my own and not depend on anyone. Now my worry is that I am stuck in the middle and do not know what to do. I care for this guy believe me I do, but I am not in love with him. Never was... I feel awful and even though I have told him this he still does not accept it and continues to ignore my feelings just to have me in his life. I am beautiful and hes told me that he is lucky to be with me because typically a man like him never date or nevertheless marry a woman as beautiful as me. I am not all there with him. I want to make myself love him just as he loves me but I cant, and not him or my family can not understand any of this. They keep ignoring me and thinking about stability. Now my main dilemma is that I am beginning to have a crush on someone else. Someone that is wonderful inside and out as well. Every time we go to work outings people always say that we look cute together or how long have we been together...etc... and that makes me more attracted to him. I will not cheat, so physically nothing will happen. I do not know what to do!? I am so confused. My friends always tell me to follow my heart but that means for me to go and live with roommates and hurt someones feelings (husband).

Elm Tree Bark dosen't look right.?

Why is the bark on my elm trees turning all spotty? They seem to be losing leaves too. The trees are at least 50 years old. About 25" in diameter and 100' tall. Ohio resident.

Im having really life changing dilemmas?

Well my parents keep shouting at me especially my mum about getting a job, but truth is they are hard to come by, my mums has threatened kicking me out the house, I've tried to look for work yes, but I don't really know where to look. :/ - anyone been in this situtation, and I really want to get a job.

What should I do about my hair dilemma?

So basically, awhile back, my hair was dark brown. I wanted it the color of my friend Quincy's hair, so I bought home hair dye, and dyed it blonde without thinking. My hair turned orange. My mom and I waited awhile before we dyed it ash blonde again. So we did, it got lighter, but oranger. So, we did this a couple of times, the color just kept getting a lighter orange. We went to a hair salon, and basically they just highlighted my hair so they wouldn't fry it. The color that they gave me was like golden blonde. I want either platinum or just an ash blonde with some brown in my hair. As the summer keeps going on, my hair gets more orange. I can't go back to a salon but I really want my hair light blonde. I don't even care about my dark roots because surfing just will keep it light. But as of now, surfing is making it oranger. What kind of hair dye should I buy and what process should I go through to get the orange out? I'm not dying my hair back to brunette.

My bf's family's religion does not agree with our relationship... help?

I have been dating him for over five months now, and his family is four square Pentecostal, and they only believe in courtship. I am very family oriented, and I don't want our relationship to tear him and his family apart, especially because we can see this going somewhere, and they might be my family as well someday. His family likes me and accepts me as a person, and his older sister went so far as to say that I am perfect for hanging out with his parents. We never hid the fact that we were with each other, but now his parents have decided to step in. We are both graduating and starting college next year. I have no idea how to deal with this situation gracefully. Please help?

Which phone you think is better? iphone or htc 3d?

still my dilemma, has anyone actually used the 3D phone yet? Main thing is the battery life. What do you guys think?? Either Iphone or HTC 3D. I don't care for the 3D effect.

What do you think of relationships not based from friendship?

I mostly agree. Romantic relationships that start as friendships have the best foundation. However, friendship is not enough by itself to start dating. There has to be that spark too.

Which of these have you read, and did you like them?

Romeo and Juliet was great and filled with true love and passion that's so romantic it would make you want to scream! Robin Hood was awesome and filled with adventure and suspense, just amazing. A Journey to The Center Of The Earth was filled with suspense and action packed adventure that would make you want your own adventure, but these are just my opinions.

Why are women obsessed with their thighs?

Most women I have dated have made it a point to show off their thighs. They'll say, "I used to be a swimmer" or "I used to be a cheerleader". They will have me look, feel, and seem to need my approval. When we play tussle in early courtship, the legs always have to work their way into the play. I will either get a foot on the face, a playful body scissor while we're on the couch, or a full on head scissor just to assert strength or some sort of lower body dominance. Are females so touchy about the thighs that they need approval or do they know that some of us males are so turned on by female legs that the mere touch, site, or constriction will turn us into putty? Regardless, showing off legs took place in probably 90% of my dating experiences from teenager right up to adulthood and I am wondering why.

What's the creepiest/scariest movie you have ever seen or heard of?

I'm not talking about pop-out scary. I want something that will make me afraid to go to sleep (I don't mean Elm Street movies). So far the scariest movie I have seen is The Ring.

Really need advice....scary movies?

I have your problem, I get freaked out to. When I'm scared, I close my eyes for a little bit, pray to god, and think of happy things, like how the movie could be good. Like in the Freddy Cruger movie, I could imagine that every time people heared the story, Freddy would come and give them a wish. Something like that. It's never too late to get over a fear. Hope I hlped!

I Love My BestFriend Since Were Little?

I have a BestFriend She`s A girl I have a Crush on Her Since Were Are Little And Now Were Are Teenagers And I want her to be Mine I think that easy to do Cause I`am Afraid To tell my Feelings To her I dont know to do I really Love Her If i tell here i Like her since were little And i want to courtship with and Date Her And Actually Went Out On a Mall But Its Only Ounce. Please Help Me Iam sorry for my English. Thanks!~

Should i/Shouldnt i, help appreciated!?

He is looking for a "friends with benefits" scenario. If this isn't for you, cut you ties and go.

What's a good Thriller/Horror/Suspense movie?

Case 39, Legions, The Crazies, After Life, A nightmare on Elm Street, George A. Romero's Survival of the Dead, Splice, Pirhana #D, Resident Evil-after life, Devil, Let me in, and Saw 3d are all scary movies ...

I can't get over my ex?

You know it yourself you donot need to see that man no more thank your lucky star you got off that merry go round if he was good for you, you would still be with him how to get over one man is to get another Donot be a door mat for no one love yourself cut that shoe string and keep it moving

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Which one (two) do u prefer most?

i'd pick modernism.. if you're trying to pick one why dont you just go for a different one completely and do surrealism because that's way better as you can do literally anything with that!

How undertaker should have returned?

ok its elm chamber and during the smackdown match teddy long comes out and says he didint find a replacement for dolph and its ust gonna be a five man match then its last pod and its locked and the crowed are ounting its like 5 4 3 2 1 and they dont no what there counting for and then we here undertaker theme play and he wins the match and beats del rio

Should the chasing always be left to the boy in the courtship stage?

He is like the male version of me so I know he's probably fearing rejection and so I want to reassure him but does that take away from the thrill of the chase?

Do you know any really scary movies?

Nightmare on elm street is one of the greatest horror films of all time, well if you dont want to see blood and gore dont watch it......... um The Shinning is creepy it does have blood in it but not guts, its good movie =)

When friends are divorcing, who do you invite to your wedding?

For a wedding next winter, why are you trying to figure this out now? Since these are your fiancee's friends, it's probably her call, but she's got months to figure it out. It's not uncommon for early versions of a guest list to have a couple of question marks, so if it was me, I'd allocate two spots for them, and see how it shakes out. You don't send invites out until 6-8 weeks prior to the wedding, and I'd think you'd know a lot more by then.

Clothing Dilemma, Annoyance, Please, can you help me or advise with this. All the answers I can get plz.?

This is hoarder's behavior. It is not a judgment on you - it is a form of OCD, and can often be an expression of clinical depression. You should seek treatment for it - because this isn't a matter of not liking it and deciding what to keep or not - this is a genuine compulsion. You need to consult a counselor who specializes in hoarding or OCD issues, and get help. I wouldn't be surprised if you are perfectionist - or your parents were. That was my mom, and she was hoardery.

11 year old kid+House of 1000 Corpses=? Anwser it by 5 please.?

Why not? The movie is great and really not that bad. If he has truly seen the list above then he should be fine.

Clubbing holiday crisis!?

How do you do, to go to a party or is the party are inseparable from the ornament of clothes and decoration. Of course, shoes is indispensable the same. When you don't know how to wear shoes, to give you some advice, hope you can become the most pertinent. I wish you good luck!

Stuck in a dilemma, unsure of what i want.?

A year ago, my girlfriend for a year and a half and i decided to break it off because we felt disconnected. She lives in my hometown and i live about 1-hour bus ride away but i was dedicated to see her every weekend. Now, having completely different lives, we are finding out that we want to be together again and we still have the same feelings. We met up and everything felt the way it used to, which is a good thing but after we concluded that our lives are not the same as they used to be, we talk to new people, we have different priorities but we still care so much for each other. I've realized that if i go back, then i'm just going to be dragged into the old city that really has no good for me and it would be hard to balance the new social life i created here since we've broken up. Something deep inside is telling me that she's the only i can be happy with, and i've tried to feel the same way with different girls but it just doesn't meet the happiness i have with her. What is happening and what am i supposed to do? Just for the record, we are both going to be seniors in high school next year. Thank you.

Should i cut him out of my life?

Well, from a guy's perspective, it sounds like he wants the benefits of a relationship without the effort that relationships need. If he's not willing to put the effort into it, I'm sure you can find someone who will. get rid of him...as painful as that may be, at least he won't stop you from landing someone who will actually want to be with you.

I bet none of you guys could answer these and get them all right?

now take your own dare; do your homework on your own, and then perhaps some of us might look it over for you.

Poll-What kind of houseplant do you have?

Because I have a racist little aloe vera. You know what he said the other day? He said ficus are stupid because they have runny sap, and that elm trees are losers because they're homeless. Well needless to say, I'm not pleased about this attitude, since I raised him from a sprout and have taught him tolerance. So what kind of plant do you have?

How much does it cost to get married at the courthouse in phoenix arizona?

It's $72 for a marriage license in Arizona. You will need to pay for a certified copy which you will need to get a new social security card and drivers license. When all is said and done you should spend no more than $120.

Is a serbian film as gross as everyone says?

Im 13 and I watch aot of horror movies (Shining nightmare on elms street) I asked my mom if i could see a serbian film cause i heard it was the scariest grossest film ever and she said if i saw that movie id be grounded for three months?? Wth? What is a serbian film? Ive seen alot of other stuff. Why wont she let me see it? She says its too gross.

Horror Movie from the late 90s/Early 2000s?

I can't remember the name of this horror movie from the late 90s or early 2000s, it had a killer with nails or some similar sharp object on his/her hands (not Nightmare on Elm Street). The killer was cloaked in either brown or black and if I am not mistaken said a phrase before killing his/her next victim. I say 'her' because I believe the killer was a she. I probably have many of the details wrong as I can't remember the movie or plot very well but trying to find info. online has led to no answers.

Help! have to decide what i want to do for the rest of my life!?

As said below you need to be realistic and if it helps I'm in year 12 and when I was year 10 I wanted to be a camera man however know i have change ideas so many times over that tome and now I am focus on becoming a fire fighter so what in saying is just do a bit if reserch and relax I can bet that you will change. Your job idea within rhe next few years

Hows this pitch sound?

Well I guess my first question is: what's the pitch for? That could make all the difference. If it's for agents/editors, you are missing some crucial information: WHAT HAPPENS? I wouldn't call this a pitch, I would call it back story. Using vague terms such as "bowing to humility" doesn't tell me what's going on.

Learning German, then going to school there?

My Oma lives in Mainz, Germany, and when I graduate from high school in December I'm going to live with her for four months to improve my German, then I'm coming back to the states. I'm either going to go to school here in the states, or I am going to spend a year in Germany living in Mainz and taking classes at the Goethe Institute preparing me to pass the DaF so that I can attend school at one of the universities. My goal is to be able to obtain a work visa after school and stay in Germany if it works out. My question is, do you think it's possible that I can reach enough fluency in German to attend a university there? I've taken 4.5 years of high school German, my dad is a fluent German speaker and is currently only speaking to me auf Deutsch. I would love to be in Germany for school; this is only a dilemma because if I choose to spend that year in Germany to learn the language, if I haven't reached enough fluency and decide I can't attend a university there I might not be able to start school in the states until I'm 21. I don't know what that would mean for ACT scores and etc, but basically I'm choosing one or the other. Yes I've thought about studying abroad. The schools that I'm applying to in the states for my major do not offer good study abroad programs, the longest period of time I can participate is up to a year. So. It's one or the other for me, I don't want to ruin my education to switch countries, but this is an opportunity that is more available to me than other people and I'm not sure about due to the circumstances. Any information from personal experience, or any suggestions? Also, my Oma is getting old and I don't have a lot of family in Germany still, so because of that and if I'm paying American college tuition, I won't be able to visit often anymore. I have also researched extensively on the DAAD website and they do not offer an English co-taught program in anything that I want to study. Help!!

Body hair removal ideas (girls only)?

here's my dilemma (lol): i really want to wear a bikini when I swim but I have some hair on my stomach. it's a happy trail I think lol. it's not like SUPER noticeable but its kinda dark (I'm a brunette) and I think people would notice it. is there any nair/veet/whatever products that I can safely use on my stomach that are TOTALLY PAIN FREE that really work?? also I'm 13 years old, 116 lbs, 5 foot 4. is that fat?? thanks sooooo much:)

I need help. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do with this guy...?

My opinion is that you should not be friends with this person.. Because well as you said he has a girlfriend and yet he does things very sweet to you like flirting. But the girlfriend could find out and get mad at you and you will be involved in a big situation. Since the guy is not that honest can lie and say you were the one flirting and he did not do anything. It will just hurt more, it is better to forget him. The only thing you are doing is going to hurt yourself more. If you stay friends with him than he might say that he is not dating no more and you date him and lastly find out he is still dating while dating you. Just not worth it. There are better guys out there, trust me cause i've walked through that path. But decided to give up on the sweet charades cause I know the truth. :)) its really up to you. You decide what you want.

How funny and disturbing is this video at the same time?

I've never had anything like that happen to me, I think if someone followed me from side to side and then just stood there facing me like that I'd have to say something. I'm a little bit of a nervous person so that would creep me the hell out lol.

What to do when your best friend wants to use your baby names?

I have been planning baby names, a few boys and a few girls names for when me and my husband of 6 yrs have baby number 2 and my friend has had a short 'courtship' and is getting married soon and thinking up baby names and a as for girl names there are no similarities but boy names she has my choices whether it be used as a first or middle name. I am frustrated cuz i have had these names for a while and love them. How do i stear her away from my names without getting rude?

Is it worth changing career?

I am a 27 year old woman, I live with my partner and little boy who is nearly 3. I currently work as a Hairdresser 3 days a week ,but have been offered a job as a trainee dental nurse after applying out of interest. I have really started to dislike my job over the last few years. I love the people I work with but find the job stressful and I don't enjoy it anymore. I have been interested in becoming a dental nurse for some time but no dental practise has given me a chance due to no experience. The only problem is as I will be a trainee nurse I will be earning �3000 less a year doing the same hours as I do now, and also will no longer be getting tips. I will have to go back to college which i'm more than happy to do and the course is 2 years long.I would like more children in the future and do not want to leave it years and years. The main dilemma i'm in is that do I stay in a job I cannot progress any further in but can manage quite well financially and have more children whenever the time is right, or start a whole new which means going back to college and earning a lot less money but has the potential for me to go as far as I wish, so in the future I will be earning an excellent wage, but have to put having more children on hold. My partner and family are very supportive on either decision I make but I really can't decide and I'm running out of time. Other peoples opinons would be highly valued :)

Can pay cash for a great starter home in foreclosure BUT...?

no you will not need a pre approval letter if you pay cash. However most sellers (including the bank sellers) will require a proof of funds (if buyers are paying cash). That means you have to provide either a bank statement or a letter from your bank, that you have enough funds available to purchase this property.

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

How can I get my husband to truly empathise with the fact that I want him back in my life?

All I can say is your mistakes in the beginning stages of your marriage has brought you closer to God.I hope your husband will truly see that.In the meantime keep doing what your doing and I hope your husband will let go of the hurt past and realize your the one for him.I recommend Fireproof a kirk cameron movie it will inspire your hope in trying to save your marriage it really is a great film.

I have an extremely unique situation, any advice?

no its not weird at all, your only a 17 year old boy. your friend is a grown adult he should of thought of that before you even met her.

I Love My BestFriend Since Were Little?

I have a BestFriend She`s A girl I have a Crush on Her Since Were Are Little And Now Were Are Teenagers And I want her to be Mine I think that easy to do Cause I`am Afraid To tell my Feelings To her I dont know to do I really Love Her If i tell here i Like her since were little And i want to courtship with and Date Her And Actually Went Out On a Mall But Its Only Ounce. Please Help Me Iam sorry for my English. Thanks!~

Best way to respond..... after sex?

had sex after a 4 month courtship. i was very cautious but it finally happened after a couple of drinks last week, because i trusted him. right after we had sex he was sweet and cuddly. told me how beautiful i was, asked me when he's going to see me again, and even said he thinks he's falling in love. the next day he was gentle and i let him make the move to kiss me and there was no awkwardness even when we saw each other briefly later on during the day. I've worked really hard at staying cool and collected during the past four months (i let him initiate contact and tried not to show that i was nuts about the guy) which is a huge achievement for a recovering clinger. thing is i haven't heard from him since..... he's a musician - which could mean a couple of things. now I'm thinking that he's perfected the art of wooing and that i was the perfect challenge.... its sad.... obviously feel used and all of that, especially when I think of how comfortable we were with each other (and please don't tell me its because i was a "bad lay" we were great together) did i give it up to soon? just wondering what the best response would be right now. obviously me ego is a little bruised but I'm not going to act like the victim here. if that's how he is, he's not worth it. anyhow. do i disappear off the scene for a while, do i act like nothings wrong or do i confront him?

What do I do with my low self esteem? Why do guy stares at me?

It is really frustrating bc I have low self esteem. I am not sure if it me that is seeing things or what? I used to have a crush on a guy who I found out has a gf but he is always nice to me. His pupil always get large when I talk to him. I have a guy in class that always stare and if I move, he will stare at me like he is paying attention. I just feel like I can't really read guys. Advice? I think I am giving up on this courtship/looking for a guy...

Does Nikon d3100 have electronic viewfinder?

also what's your opinion on Nikon d3100? your answer will settle my dilemma so that is whay i say to you thanks loads

Psychokinesis training?

The real problem you're having is that none of that stuff is actually possible. There are millions of dollars in prize money out there for anyone who could do any of it, and no one ever has. Energy doesn't work like you seem to think it does; that was your imagination.

Pregnancy test shows up not pregnant and then pregnant every other one?

First of all, why would you buy the Wal-mart brand? Nothing works from Wal-Mart. I once saw an outdated pregnancy test sitting on they're shelves that expired in 2010. You need EPT or Clearblue Easy. They are 99% accurate but there is that 1% chance they are wrong. Go to your doctor for accuracy. In the future if you can help it, don't by any products that are generic from Wal-Mart which is anything that says EQUATE. You get what you pay for there which is usually crap. Good Luck and I hope you get the answer your looking for!!

Minecraft Item Elevator?

make a waterfall. enclosed in a shaft so there is only enough room fora boat to fit. the boat will float and carry items up. now you just gotta be creative and make the boat comeback down and start the cycle over automatically.

I bought Twister DVD at Super Pawn for 49 cents was that a good deal?

They have alot of 49 cent dvds at Super Pawn but some are 2 dollars and some are 4 dollars. Elm Street Remake was 4 dollars.

Is the Nightmare on Elm Street series...scary?

Apparently to my mom it is. I just want to watch the series because Freddy Kreuger is such a badass dude. Would it give nightmares, or are the effects so lame that you laugh rather then scream?

Do you think am i a hipster?

I don't know if you care for my opinion but it's better just to be yourself instead of classifying yourself as a stereotype.

Why are women obsessed with their thighs?

Most women I have dated have made it a point to show off their thighs. They'll say, "I used to be a swimmer" or "I used to be a cheerleader". They will have me look, feel, and seem to need my approval. When we play tussle in early courtship, the legs always have to work their way into the play. I will either get a foot on the face, a playful body scissor while we're on the couch, or a full on head scissor just to assert strength or some sort of lower body dominance. Are females so touchy about the thighs that they need approval or do they know that some of us males are so turned on by female legs that the mere touch, site, or constriction will turn us into putty? Regardless, showing off legs took place in probably 90% of my dating experiences from teenager right up to adulthood and I am wondering why.

I need some help regarding a CB Antenna?

the best attic antenna would be a loop of wire strung in the horizontal plane that is 1 wavelength at CB frequency. That would be 34 feet total length if that fits your attic. layed out 'square' that would be 8.5 foot on a side, but shape is not critical and 6 x 11 rectangle will be just as good. where the ends come together is called the feed point. that will have a 120 ohm resistance. it is hard finding a balun of that exact size for connecting to the coax unless you wind your own. you can use a commercial 1:1 balun and then run about 7 feet of RG6 (75 ohm coax, like used to match twin antennas) to transform to regular 50 ohm coax like RG58 or miniRG8 that should get you close to a low swr.

Who is the best actor playing freddy krueger, Robert Englund or Jackie Earle Haley?

I sower that I wouldn't buy the new nightmare on Elm St. with Jackie Earle Haley as Freddy Krueger, but I haven't seen any real new movie for awhile. So what the hell I desisted to pick up a copy. It's sucked just like every other remake of old classics. I think is a real a slap in the face to horror fans, and nightmare fans alike! Robert is Freddy and that's that!

Want a new phone BUT...?

I currently have an iPhone and have had it for the past year, but I have a 2 year contract on it. Here's the dilemma: I want a new cell phone because I cracked the screen and it appears to be a LOT of $$ to get it fixed. HOWEVER, termination fee is apparently $325?!!? Is there any way to get around this termination fee so that I can get another type of phone? I do not plan on getting another iPhone because I personally did not like it. Curse this contract!

Renting an apartment in san Diego ?

we are a family of 3, when we moved into this apartment in san Diego, the rental manager said that for a 2 bedroom unit they only allow 3 people and for a single bedroom unit only 2 people is allowed. when we were at the office there were two other fAmilies that the manager turned down because she said that they have rules that maximum if 3 can only live in a two bedroom unit, but when we signed our lease there was nothing on the agreement that says we cant have more than 4 occupants in the unit,our dilemma is this we have been living in the apartment for more than a year and now we are expecting our second child which makes us four..right now we are in no situation to move out .. is the apartment company violating any rules/law with regards to accepting tenants and do we have rights if they say that since we are now going to be 4 in our family we have to move out.

Which Star Wars book should I start reading first?

Oh are we playing jeopardy? I know it Alex! If the answer is "which star wars book do I read first" then The question is " What is something you ask a girl that will guarantee you never have sex with her?" Hey dude, Princess Leia was hot in that gold bikini when you were young. Now it's time to put down the book and use your light saber on a flesh and blood woman! Or maybe just look at the copyright year and start with the earliest one.

How much is an adults ticket to london by tube from elm park?

i know nothing about trains n my sisters forcefully asking me and my mother to travel to some arch bridge place whatever in london but how much roughly does it cost for an adults ticket and a ticket for 15/16 yr old??? lmao i don't even know where to get the tickets from also my mother has an oyster card and i was wondering whether she could put money on that idk help this is my first time tryna get round these kinda places lmao

Plz answer to the given dilemma?

nope. that would be illegal, unless it puts the patient or someone the patient knows in peril or life threatening circumstances. It really doesn't matter( in real life) what a doctor thinks, if you want more info look up HIPPA (Health Information Portability and Privacy Act).

Courtship in polar bears?

can somebody help me find information about courtship in polar bears.. what does this even mean.. please help

Should Mayday Parade and Taylor Swift do a song together?

I was just wondering. They both seem to appeal to teens and young adults, and they often write music that revolves around failed relationships and courtship. I was just wondering what you thought.

WHATS YOUR TOP 5 HORRORS FILMS EVER?

Rofl Zombieland horror? its a comedy :) But the only movie that really scared me out of all of these was 'The Ring'

Best horror movies to see?

I'm wanting to watch some for real horror movies. None of the crap like Shaun of the Dead or Zombieland. I need PURE HORROR! Something that'll have you checking over your shoulder every few minutes to make sure your not going to be killed. I love love love horror, but I can never find a movie that's horrific enough to satisfy me. The Grudge and Nightmare on Elm Street aren't really scary to me and I've seen them 10 times by now, so any other ideas? Also I prefer movies that are made from 1990-2011 please.

What should i do about my unpopular friends?

First off u care tooooo much about being popular u know went ur out of school it don't matter ! If u was or not and them friend that r un popular was ur friend first and without them u didn't have any went u first went there but the unpopular friend r acting childish now bec u want to be cool and fit in and not be ur slfe .. U should not care what ppl think and hang with ppl that likes the u do and the new friend will just get to know u and then make funny of u and make ur life suck

Which is more believable? (Dilemma)?

Well, the first one appears to be more believeable. HOWEVER, I wouldn't try either, to be honest. This guy must mean a lot to you if you're prepeared to lie just to view his profile, and make a new account. When I get a new friend request, I ALWAYS check their profile first, and if they don't have a profile picture, or I've never heard of their name then there's NO WAY I'm gonna add them. If I were you, I'd just be completely honest. If you really want to try and view his profile, then I'd chose the first because the second one is more likely to get you banned if you pose as someone else. I've had someone pose as me before and I was actually really upset because they get your profile pictures. Besides, he might ask the person that he thinks you really are questions that you don't know the answer too. I'd just be honest. Honesty is the best policy, and you might end up digging yourself into a hole that needn't be dug, haha. Good luck :)

Monday, August 8, 2011

How do I get rid of seedlings in my grass?

I have a large area of buffalo grass on the side of our shop and I noticed that there is a bunch of cottonwood and elm seedlings growing. How do I get rid of them without killing my grass?

Help a fellow drinker out?

I'm really sorry but your problem seems to be that you have an incurable and destructive disease called alcoholism. With respect and for the sake of ay family you may have I think you need to seek professional help.

What is this quote from?

time and time again the truths become lies and the lies become a way of these towns cannot carry on the end will come soon and we will only have ourselves to blame. the courtship will have the final say on who shall become one of the non existence

Embarassing confession: help?

So when I was a little kid one of my biggest memories was walking into my cousins room and he was watching a freddy krueger movie. I got scared and asked him what it was and he told me it was real footage filmed about people who hear the story of the guy and he then comes after them and thats what all scary movies are. At the times he saw it as a harmless joke. But to this day I am scared to death of all older scary movies. Especially Nightmare on Elm Street. Very few people know this. I cannot watch them at all. I have left peoples houses cuz they were getting ready to watch one. Well, I promised this good friend of mine I'd watch the original Nightmare on Elm Street with him. I am for real, freaking out! Any advice on how to get over this fear??? I know they won't really come out of the TV or anything like that, Im not 4. But it still really freaks me out. I need help. Or is it just too late for me?

Should I send my highest math score or my highest overall SAT score?

I took the SAT 3 times, the first time I got a 630 in math, which was my highest, but my reading was 500 and writing 470, overall 1600. Then in march I had reading 560 and math 560, and writing 460, overall 1580. My June SAT I had Reading 530, Math 620, Writing 530, overall 1680. Should I send my first grade with the poor english score but highest math score, or my last SAT with better english but a lower math score? I know a lot of colleges don't even look at the writing section, so I'm in a bit of a dilemma as to what to send.

What Are Some Really Scary Movies?

i recently saw "Fingerprints". It's not the scariest, but I really liked it. Except, I wouldn't watch it with anyone immature, because there's one inappropriate scene in a car..........anyways, i liked it. Also, P.S. It's on Netflix to watch instantly!

In some native American cultures are you automatically married after 6 months of a relationship?

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months and were very happy together. I am native American and she is not. But a tribal friend of mine told me recently that it is our tribal custom to be married after 6 months of relationship an courtship. Can somebody please verify this with me?

What's the most sick/twisted/disgusting movie you ever saw?

Salo: The 120 days of sodom. Look it up. The director was murdered after it was made. It's actually an excellent film about fascism, very well made by a well respected italian director. But it also features **** eating, torture, nudity. Really messed up movie. Not as mainstream as the ones you listed that's for sure.

Best horror movie remakes?

Best one ever is night of the living dead. Watch the black and white version first then watch the remake. Its amazing.

Was the late princess diana and prince charles wedding arranged?

If not how did the 2 meet? Was there any kind of courtship prior to there engagement and wedding? Why didn't he marry camilla instead?

It is a rare observation in behavior after men marry?

O.k, this may sound crass. but I really don't mean it too. Of course the bed room has something to do with their ego about themselves. They're men. Men are moved by touch , sight, taste, feel & smell. On the surface anyway. They probably haven't been challenged enough in other areas as well. I empathize with you, but I'm going to tell like my ex-husband once told me, read some literature about your issues. It does help. It woke me up. Men are different then women and it's important to understand along with respecting these differences. Best of wishes.

Giv me a list of old classic slasher films?

Feel like watchin some old classic slasher films.seen most of nightmare on elm street films,the bad seed(not slasher but still good),the evil dead..all I can remember..

I have a dilemma.....?

L for sure. I like someone who has the same sense of humor, is smart, and just generally awesome. C sounds like she's sweet and all, but a little too forward. I like someone who can be a best friend and a girlfriend at the same time, and that sounds like what L would provide for you :)

How do you cross breed swordtails with platies?

ok, so im frustrated..i read EVERYWHERE that swordtails and platies (maculatus) "interbreed freely" lolol...i have 20 gallon tanks..heated 78-80f. nothing else in them. so when i go to cross breed i make sure theres no available mates of the same species so that way there forced to mate together...i tried male sword to female platy..(i usually do in one 20 g tank 1 male swordtail with 3-6 female platys so he has a choice) NOTHING!!! they dont even acknowledge one another just swimming up n down the glass doing whatever, no courtship displays how swords usually do by trying to "stab the female". NOTHING!!!!! so in my other 20 gallon tank..same heated to 78-80 F. no fish in it..i use 1 male platy to 3-4 female swords..NOTHING again!!!! what do i have to do to get them to mate?? there both of the genus xiphophorus. all the books and internet articles say they "interbreed freely".. well has anyone had luck in hybridizing them??? i want to make hybrids, i seen aweosme pics how the male f1 hybrids of the cross come out with tiny curved up swords and neat patterns not seen of. i wanna experience them. so what set up would you recomend for me......male platy to 3-4 female swords...or male sword to 3-6 female platys to acheive them to mate??..like i said every time i go to mate them i make sure there the only fish in the tank with no mates available of the same specie so theyd be forced to mate..is this normal why they dont even acknowledge each other ever??? please help me out with your experiences so i can get them to mate and produce hybrids!! thanks!!!!!

If the Republican Party is responsible for your unemployment dilemma, why was employment better under Bush?

a destroyed economy takes longer than 2 years to correct 8 years of failure....and un-employment reached its highest point ever under reagan....look it up...google it right now...but it we know you wont ....facts?...run away!!

Can dreams be realistic?

Dream are usually really personnal they can be things that makes sense for you or that you cant even accept because you find them to be troubling, but if it would be possible for dream to get into the real world it would be without the law of physics as we know them

Can I upgrade my laptop? Is it worth it?

if you love it that much and it hasn't failed you, then go update it. the new windows is a little frustrating even though they tried to make it simpler

How do i write about conflict in a prison?

For an English essay i have to write an 1000 words piece of writing on conflict in any form, they are mainly looking for creative writing skills but i need an idea on what kind of conflict i can write about. I need a plan so like first 500 words is for one dilemma so basically needing four main things to happen to do with conflict and is this good for giving me lots of chances to use creative writing skills like pretend someone got locked up in my conflict story and i wrote "the walls, as blank as a so and so were closing in up on me"

Bestfriend hooked up with first love?

I found out my bestfriend since elm school, pretty much my sister, got drunk, went to a party and had sex with my first love. she called me crying bc she hardly remembers it and she said they put something in their drink and raped her. i found out that was a lie bc my other ex was there and he wouldnt lie about it. he said she got drunk with my ex and they had sex. at first she didnt tell me about having sex with him, i found out. i tried to just ignore it but i exploded one day. she said it was no big deal and that i said i hated him anyways. she knew i did love him , but i found out he was an aid infested dirtbag heroine addict. but she still did it and i want to forgive her. i want things to be the same between us. do you think its right?

What is the difference between courting and dating?

I always hear people going back and forth about dating vs courtship. There seems to be no difference to me, except that normal people like dating, and homeschoolers, nerds, geeks, buckteeth, etc. champion the cause of Courtship. WHAT THE HELL IS THE DAM DIFFERENCE!!!

If you really liked them, would you wait...?

I have a dilemma. Let's say your crush (that you've had for about 6 months) recently got a girlfriend/boyfriend about 2 months ago. Would you wait for him/her? You REALLY like them. It's not like you're interfering with their relationship, but you still talk to him/her because they're a really close friend. You're happy for them, but you're still not able to move on quite yet because you think that eventually they'll fall apart. Would you wait for them? Or no? I can't seem to decide.

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Two dilemmas in one , please help me understand all this..?

Uh, are you a tomboy? If so, you need a fabulous make over. (Go to an upscale Spa for the best make over. Learn how to apply make up). You need to start looking more like a feminine girl, and behaving like a really feminine kind of girl. Don't compete with guys and don't be their "buddy." They won't take you seriously if you're their best buddy. So hon, what you have to do is re-invent yourself... shed your old image and become "the new girl in town."

What should i do about my snake dilemma?

3 weeks ago I bought a baby corn snake. He's really great except for one thing, he won't eat! I know that snakes can go a while without eating but what I'm worried about is that petco sold him wayyy to young and I don't know if he's ever even eaten before. I have tried to feed him 4 times now with no luck and have tried all of the feeding techniques in the book, dangling, leaving him alone in a dark place, braining, cutting in half. The dilemma is that I have the option of returning him and getting a new snake. But the longer I wait to return him, the less likely they will take him back. The store said that they would work with us about how long they will allow me to return him, but I don't know how long that actually means. Should I return him?

Is this a real mental illness?

:D aww no you dont have a problem, you just love children<3 but i think you should look into child care or something you know?

Ladies, how would someone normally react to their boyfriend saying this?

I'd say,"if it wasnt me then what was it? I guess it wasn't true love then huh?"... but I'm not the type to get mad or hate them if they broke up with me.

What do you think of relationships not based from friendship?

If there's initial attraction between the two why not start out romantically. That's how my boyfriend and I started and we found we have so many common interests and also many different ones which keeps it interesting. Through the course of our relationship we've become best friends as well as romantic partners. I don't know what I do if I couldn't spend at least one day a week with him. I do agree that there has to be a friendship between two people for it to work, but it doesn't always need to start out that way.

Isn't 6 years old too young for girls to be talking about boys, Justin beiber, make up, dresses, and cussing?

Because that is what Im hearing coming out of my daughters slumber party. I went in there and threatened to put on the movie Nightmare on Elm Street if they did not quiet down and they all went pfffft! and laughed. Smh big time.

American idol season 11 auditions?!?

i think you have to have an adult with you i mean it doesn't have to be your actual mom or dad but it needs to be someone maybe you could find someone who is over the age of 18 to go with you. and i am sorry that your mom doesn't wont to go but it could be fun if she did go cause you would be visiting all them places and she would be cheering you on. i wish you the best and i see you soon on tv i guess :) if you make it therw good luck.

Which movie is better?!?

I have never watched Nightmare on Elm Street so I would say watch The Strangers. There is no blood at all but it's terrifying. I had nightmares after that movie and had a hard time to sleep at night. :)

What are the traditions and culture of the philippines?

cultures and traditions in regards to courtship and marriage, when the girl is pinay and the boy is american. I already about meeting the parents and getting the blessing. But I want to know every detail, from basic courting up to the wedding day, everything i will need to know and prepare for. THANK YOU SO MUCH.

Do I give my neighbor a birthday present?

It is my neighbor's birthday on the same day as mine, she is 3 years younger than me. Our parents are really good friends because they work together and me and her get on really well. Her family is going out for a birthday meal and asked if we wanted to make it a joint thing. My parents agreed but we now have the dilemma of whether or not to buy her a present. In normal circumstances i wouldnt of because we are not that close. But it will be really awkward if one of us gets a present but the other doesnt! what do i do??

Which of the following is necessary for two species to be separate?

its d. waise to sabhi options take place betwee two seprate species but agr option d active alone no other needed

Information help on Zebras.?

Whatever I tell you will not be good enough for your science project but this site will be more helpful.

What field of psychology do I want to study?

Firstly, should you wish to pursue a career in which the clinical environment of therapy and the scientific edge of research are integrated, I would recommend you invest in a joint M.D./Ph.D. degree. By equipping yourself with this confluent academic merit, you can partake in both psychology as well as the research whereby science is translated into clinical practice. Proceeding to the sub-genres of psychology, or in the context of medicine, psychiatry, there are a variety of options that cater to the individual interests of the aspiring professional. Clinical psychology typically pertains to aiding individuals with their personal dilemmas and regimenting cognitive behavioral therapy as an intervention to quell these problems. In addition, psychologists are trained to diagnose mental illnesses, such as depression, as well as functional syndromes, such as autism. Psychiatrists preoccupy themselves with similar activities, however, they exercise the power to prescribe psychoactive medication to treat mental illness, and subsequently have a broader understanding of psychopathology in a neurological context. Psychometrists are the mathematicians of the discipline, quantifying values of intelligence, social competence, and mood via psychometric examinations such as the ever-prevalent IQ test. Moving from the clinical environment to that of the research institution, cognitive neurologists seek to elucidate the neural substrates governing behavior, grounding lofty concepts such as philosophy, perception, language, and personality into the hard-wired biological construct of the brain. Evolutionary psychologists describe the benefits certain behaviors pose for Darwinian individual selection and survival value, explaining why the different sexes act in idiosyncratic manners, and why counterintuitive reactions such as aggression are evolutionarily viable. Behavioral genetics and psychogenomic science attempts to pin down phenotypic behaviors and brain structure to an isolated gene or larger hereditary unit. Finally, neuropharmacology serves as the pharmacy for the discipline, producing novel psychiatric drugs in response to the clinical needs of those who suffer from mental and cognitive illnesses. Note that these categories are rather broad, and can be further dissected into even more specific fields that pertain to esoteric studies, such as biomusicology or sexology. Given this candy shop of choice, it is of my personal observation that cognitive neurology is certainly the most vogue field in psychology during the modern era. Society is beginning to acknowledge the irrefutable role biology plays in determining behavior, and as such, research has accelerated in response, with many of the most profound discoveries on thought and behavior being made in the last decade or two. Yet, the value of the field transcends mere behavioral theory and scientific titillation; the advancements made in these disciplines represent a hope for many suffering from the gamut of psychiatric illness. It truly is science with a purpose. As such, my own personal verdict would recommend a career in both clinical psychology and cognitive neurology. You get the best of both worlds; the intrigue of science coupled with the seeing the face of who you're doing the science for -- people.

Christians: How would you ask a father for permission to date his daughter?

Sir, I have liked your daughter for quite some time now and I am asking for your blessing for me to go out with your daughter. Would you give me your blessing?

Parents: Would you let your child do this?

Ok, first off I'm 15. My parents are letting me do this acting thing over the summer. It involves me staying out until 2am but I'm in good care and for the performances my father has to be there anyway. Now my dilemma is that I want to do this during the school year too, and I know that this seems pretty much out of the question but let me give an argument. The performances are only on every other weekend, on Friday and Saturday so I would not be missing any school. I would make sure my grades don't slip below an A or I would promise to quit. I would show my parents all my homework so they could see it was done and that I wasn't slacking off. The rehearsals are on Sunday, but are only until 8. I usually don't have anything outside of school so this would be a great thing for me to look forward to and motivate me to do well in school. So that pretty much concludes my argument. What do you think? Would you let your own child do this? If not, why? Thanks in advance.

Any places close or inside of Little Elm, Texas that hire at 15?

I really need a job but my parents wont let me get one out of this area so maybe even Frisco could work.. Someone help.. Please??

Should I spend $160 on about 30 movies?

i say save your money for other things. but if it will make you happy and you can afford it, go for it.

MARRIED A TAURUS MAN? THIS GIRL IS COMING ON STRONG TO HIM HELP?

Did you have any women that were vying for his affection and attention in the courtship/friendship process..what did you do to stand out? This girl is coming on strong and letting him know that she is the one and I am wanted to know do they like women that are more laid back or do they like women that are always around them and making it known that they like them? If they want the latter I can't compete with that. I don't kiss his bottom and I am not going to be around him chasing him down. This girl does that and it seems like now he is around her more I think? I don't know help

We have been dating a month, is it too early to ask to be bf/gf?

So ive known this girl in class for 3 months. asked her out last day of school. we've been on dates since late may till now. We hold hands, kiss, hug. all that relationship stuff lol. She tells me she likes me and i like her. I've liked her since the first time she sat next to me in class. Smart, funny, beautiful. So anyways, i want to ask her to be my gf...i planned a gondola ride and am debating if i should ask her there. Do you think it's too soon? or this would be perfect? i dont want to let this girl slip through my fingers because i really like her, but i dont want to push her away by being too eager...ahh dilemmas , dilemmas... any advice for me? thanks.

I think the girl I like hates me now.?

I don't thinks she hates you. she just got caught off guard and probably thinks your coming on a little strong. give her some space and dont talk to her a lot, space out your texts more. like 1 a day or every 3 days or something? hope we helped, (:

Are Russian Men Different From American Men in Terms of Dating?

Perhaps he is afraid of accusations of sexual harassment. In America it is widespread and Russian know it. :)

How should I manage my situation?

I am not sure what a love marriage is but I assume you are not married legally. I would not get married. He heeds to grow up and cut the strings. If he is so influenced by his mommy, then let her have him. He should be supporting you and his child. He is putting mommy first and that is not a good sign. He also is being influenced by her which mean he has not grown up yet. I would not marry him.

Dastardly discharge dilemma?

I know the whole deal about your lady parts not smelling like a rose garden. I'm 15 and it just grosses me out. I make sure when I take a shower that I splash water down there and all. I have discharge and it smells yucky but like the normal yuck, it's not a yeast infection. I like wearing thongs but I always have to wear those always thong panty liners with them. This discharge is just so gross and annoying, I want to be able to wear thongs without the little liner things. I have to wear panty liners with my normal underwear too. What can I do about it?

I love him so much; more than I ever imagined. I love him so much that I'm letting him go.?

I may not be in college yet, but I'm on a more mature thinking grounds. Yes, I do in fact believe that you've made the right decisions. Everything happens for a reason, right? Well, try and keep in touch with him so that you can at least have some kind of friendship still going. When you two see each other again, you can decide for yourselves if dating each other is still a path you wish to embark on. That reminds me of a quote: If you love someone set them free if they come back it was meant to be

Survey-What should I do to smooth things over?

with my houseplant? I mean, I didn't mean to yell, but that little jerk was being racist. He said, "ficus don't deserve to share soil with us succulents, and elms are such losers being homeless and all." Well, I didn't raise him from a sprout to act like this, so how can I get him to see the light and get harmony back into my trailer?

Survey--Who is the more racist out of these?

Houseplants all the way! All they do is laugh at the outdoor trees all day long. Sometimes, they even use them when they get taken outside. Someone needs to do something about this.

What do you think are some generalized absurd expectations men and women tend to have about a perspective mate?

that women think well give them our money without copious amounts of sammiches and them getting on their knees and showing some love every now and then. jeesh.

A question about a song in the movie "The Dilemma" with Vince Vaughn?

He had just bought the camera and he was climbing the balcony at Zip's house to watch them and a song was playing. What was it?

Should i watch the night mare on elm street alone?

im a 15 year old guy staying up to kill some zombies but i wanna watch one more horror movie before i die...is it too scary to watch alone?

M Tech or MBA. Thouroughly confused! Please help?

I completed my BE, Electrical and Electronics in 2010 and am currently working. I'm in a real dilemma as to whether MTech or MBA should be my next target. I understand that doing one, will reduce my chance of the other degree because a job after PG is my priority. I enjoy both fields and do not want to let go of either opportunity. I'm based in India and going abroad is not an option right now. Your opinions please.

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Can you read my story and help me decide what to do about my conflicted body image?

learn to accept the way you are.what you are saying is impossible,unless if you feel like you are in the wrong body,then you can go into surgery they can change you into a girl maybe you will feel better in a woman 's body.sorry you feel that way,i cannot even imagine myself in that situation.maybe there is something wrong with your brain,you should put this question in psychology maybe they can help stop feeling that way

SAMSUNG S5253W WAVE 525 mobile?

Friends i am planning to get a SAMSUNG S5253W WAVE 525 mobile.....still in a dilemma.ur comments can guide me.so help me to choose between SAMSUNG S5253W WAVE 525 and sony ericsson xylo..

Best places and ways to advertise my wedding planner and event business? ?

as i am planning a wedding right now i have to say if you go on wedding wire or other wedding websites brides go nuts! Were looking for everything right there in front of us. wedding wire helps plan everything. and has a place to advertise yourself. i would start there. just google wedding websites and see what you can find and most the time they are free so you wont have to pay to advertise :)

Sapling~ english elm?

For the past few years there has been an english elm sapling growing in my bushes. Today i finally decided to uproot it. I put the sapling into a regular plastic bucket with water and some plant food. I plan to change the water every day for about 6 days(so that there is no bugs laying their eggs in the standing water) to see if it will survive. I googled english elm for information, but nothing could help me. I would like to know, how to take care of an english elm sapling. I have a book of trees, but it just gives me basic info. Please help!!!! thankyou

What will you do if you are the boy or girl friend?

if i was the girl then i would ask my boy friend if he really loves me then he should let me do it on considering about my career.As for ur boyfriend, his jealousy is obvious but he should now only consider about the fact that is ur career..

Nightmare On Elm Street........Freddy question ?

Just watched it and Mortal Kombat jumped in my head.....erm I don't know the guys name in Mortal Kombat but he is a magician and he's one of Shao Khans main allies.....is it the same actor who does the voice?

As a freshman do a lot of people have to take remedial English and Math in college?

Yes, it happens pretty frequently so I wouldn't worry too much about it and they normally do count as an elective.

Are there any good slasher/horror films I might like?

I love slasher movies, but idk which ones are good ones, I really like the nightmare on elm street series, & plz don't say friday the 13th cuz I already saw that movie, just throwin' that out there, haha, any suggestions would be appreciated, Thanks! :)

How to get him to like me?

God has a plan for you! Just keep talking to him and a little flirting and if it is meant to be it will be Good Luck :)

Who is your favorite actor in the Watchmen?

I like rorschach played by Jackie Earle Haley. He is my favorite guy in the Watchmen. I didn't really care for Jackie Earle Haley's version of Freddy Krueger in the new nightmare on elm st, but I think he did just a fantastic job as rorschach in the Watchmen.

Weird insurance policy dilemma?

SO. Here's the story. I'm planning on moving in with a friend for my senior year of high school because my family is moving to another state, and I can't leave what I have here. But I don't know how car/health insurance would work. Would I send my folks money or would I get my own thing or could they still keep me in their plan thing? There's a lot I don't know about insurance kind of stuff, so any advice will help. :) Thanks!

Is Insidious the most scariest movie in the world?

Or is there something else that's scarier than Insidious? Like is Nightmare on Elm Street scarier or The Exorcist? Or is it considered to be the most scariest movie ever?

NEED HELP ASAP!! google is proving useless?

Okay this may go on a little bit but i need some help here. I have a sony ericsson elm phone and micro sd memory card in it, my laptop has wifi but my USB ports are broken also i have kodak wireless all in one printer esp 5250. I can put my memory card in the printer but its not picking up all my photos (YES THEY ARE THE RIGHT FORMAT). my problem is i need to print my photos on the memory card! i can connect my phone to laptop using wifi but i can only view the photos using windows media player and i have no options to edit or print. the kodak home centre picks up the windows media player but not the media device connected by wifi. is there ANY way i can print the photos off of my memory card by using any of the things i already have?? like by changing setting or anything i havn't already tried? please someone help me... :-(

Suggestions for roommate/moral dilemma?

I'm living with a good friend who is not in the most sound place financially. Basically he is used to a higher lifestyle until he was cut off, and wants to maintain that lifestyle with minimum wage jobs. I had to lend him $350 in order to make deposit in May, and I have asked repeatedly him for me to start paying me back, even if it's $10-20 here or there to no avail. I want to cut off his internet, as punishment until he starts making payments. The question I have is, do you think it's a good idea? Or is there another method you would take? I know he is trying to deal with a piling amount of debt, and I feel bad for him, but I am getting sick and tired of him stonewalling me especially since he is not making any lifestyle changes. Thanks!

Can who ever has A Nightmare On Elm Street DVD of the remake answer this question?

I got A Nightmare on elm Street. The remake on DVD. Is is suppossed to have special features? Because the only options on my DVD are languages and play movie

My husband is still in touch with his ex-gfs.I feel very jealous and insecure. Is my feeling justified?.?

Ours is an arranged marriage and we got married a year ago. During our courtship period he told me he had 2 girlfriends in past and had broke off with the last one 3 years before our marriage. They are also married and settled in different cities. He talks to them occasionally, say like may be once in 2 months. Sometimes chats with them online. He has told me that they just catch up with one another and talk general stuff. I trust him completely and know that he is not and will never cheat upon me. But I hate it when he talks to them. I also get suspicious bcoz I am not with him the entire day. I get suspicious that he must be talking to them while he his away at office or when I am not around. He loves me very much and is a very caring and a wonderful husband and vice versa. I have already conveyed it to him that I dont like that fact that he is in touch with his ex. But he says that he is just friends with them and I should accept that much. I know that I am being paranoid. But i feel very insecure and it affects my state of mind very badly. I get scared to tell him upfront to cut the contact with them. Whenevr I discuss this issue with him I get very emotional and start crying. So I avoid to raise the topic and subside my emotions. I have tried to ignore it so far. But I cannot stand the fact that he is still in touch with his past and I dont understand that why one has to keep contact with their ex's. Am I over reacting? Because I dont want to create an issue out of this. Is my feeling justified or I should just let it go?

Horror movie to watch with my friends?

i want to watch a horror movie with my friends tonight, what are some good ones? we love psychological ones (with blood is fine). some of our favorites are: The Uninvited, Nightmare on Elm Street, Mirrors, The Hills Have Eyes, etc. (already seen Friday the 13th, Saw, Freddy vs. Jason, The Exorcist...pretty much all the classics haha) thanks!

Girlfriend said that she is falling out of love with me...?

She may not feel that spark. I think you have to reassure her that you don't want her to leave and if that doesn't work maybe you guys should take some space

Nitrous Oxide vs. IV for Wisdom Teeth Removal?

I would go with the Nitrous Oxide since you seem to be more comfortable with that type of sedation. Even if you decide to have general anesthesia, I wouldn't go back to the oral surgeon who tried to force it on you. I'm guessing he prefers to use general anesthetic because it's easier on him since the patient will be out of it. With Nitrous Oxide you are still completely awake.

For those of you who've been cheated on?

I dont think i could go back to that person...i mean, i always take my relationships serious, so for someone to go and cheat would just destroy everything and i dont think i would ever want to waste time on someone who has cheated on me.

How to get him to like me?

Hi, you need to stop being so silly, you're only 16!!! do you really think your father will let him court you?? You are much to young for this nonsense and should just relax and consider the wishes of the church.

How to fix a J10i2/Elm (Sony Ericsson) handphone?

My J10i2 (Elm) is having some problem with the Media, I can't open Photo, Games, and Web Feeds. Application (also the Facebook application in the Messaging menu) and My Widgets also aren't accessible. My Games and Applications folders are really inaccessible, either I open it from Media, File Manager or Entertainment (that really annoy me, I love games). Please I need someone who an expert on Sony Ericsson phone or anyone who can fix my problems. Thanks before. I really appreciate your help.

Christians, what age do you think it's appropriate for someone to start courting (biblical courtship)?

When they are emotionally, financialy able and metally mature enough to take on the role, they are applying for.....that being someone's soulmate

What are some good scary books?

i hate reading but i think its because i havent found the right book yet. I am looking for a really really scary book. im rilly in to ghoststories and like stuff like the exorcist and the shining, nightmare on elm street. i dont love stories about vampires or stuff like that but if its a really good book i want to try it. i heard salems lot is a pretty scary book but im confused what its about? thanks!

Should We Respect God/Religion that does not respect basic human rights or humanity itself?

Do good, live well, help out your fellow man, respect one another, just do that and you'll be okay. Don't think so much about the murders and deaths that happen in the bible, I know everyone's obsessed with blood & death, but we need to get past this.

Friday, August 5, 2011

Please help me save this baby elm tree ~!?

I wouldn't hold out hope. Even in mature trees an herbicide booboo can cause catastrophic damages. Being such a small guy, probably near zero hope. As long as the stem is flexible, there's hope...............once it is brittle though, you know it's gone.

How can I be less scared from a horror movie?

If you can't sleep, don't fret about it. Do something that takes your mind off of stuff. For me, it's some kinds of computer games, like time management games.

Question on pride and prejudice...? (Rate my thesis?)?

They are great thesis statements, but I would add the fact that Pride and Prejudice is a novel. Otherwise your audience is free to interpret it as something else entirely. "Throughout the novel Pride and Prejudice..."

What to do after getting a girl's number?

never really understood this part of modern courtship. just in terms of time-parameters here, when is it too soon to call, and when is it too late so that it is awkward?

I'm having a dilemma?

I don't know if I should go to the Harry Potter midnight premiere with my friend! I love Harry potter but I'm not very good without sleep. Plus, my dad want to see it with me later. What should I do???

PA System Dilemma, Need Help!?

A pa that has to cover 4 blocks better have a lot of distributed speakers. A single speaker or pair at the front of the crowd will damage hearing severely, if it's loud enough to be heard fouru blocks away. Spread the sound around with multiple speakers.

A Morel Dilemma i know im a hypocrite but i do know what to do?

ok so i have a dissease that makes me small, and i cant stand the fact that others really never want to get close to me b.c of that so i neveer really have much romantic relationships (im male 17) and now this one girl who is in a wheel chair for life told me she like me and wants to be with me but i have no idea why but i have a huge problem with her being in a wheel chair! and i know thats being a Hippocrate but i do not know what to do, i cant stand that fact and its pissing me off, i shouldnt feel like that but i do, i think i might be because every time i would say i was with someone they automatically assumes that person is also handicapped and i think i have a problem with that so what should i do?

Rate this poem on the end of the world time scale?

I very much enjoyed this and felt that even in a world devoid of human life, inanimate objects breathe.

Should I tell her fiance that she's been cheating on him with me?

Sorry to say but I feel like she's just not good person if she could cheat on him don't you think she would do the same to you and poor guy ( her fianc�) he's supposed to be on a church mission . Honey there are plenty of nice girls out there and you should never lose your friends for nobody . I think you should just move on and I don't know if you should tell him cus you knew she had a bf and it would only be doing that to spite her . I wish you the best and hope you van find a girl that's just for you

What color shoes with teal summer dress?

I just bought a teal summer dress. The material is a soft cotton. My dilemma is what color shoes and what type of shoes to wear with it. I don't want to wear heels since I will be wearing it during the day and doing alot of walking so thought maybe a flat sandal but not sure what color..??

Re-dying my hair, can someone help me?

Do not dye your hair, it is not good for your health. The hair coloring contains many bad chemical additives.

REAAAAAAALLY scary movie? ;D?

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What does this mean? Best explanation get best answer (:?

if you make them work hard to get you (to go on a date, kiss them, have sex etc) then they are more likely to fall for the girl and find it hard to let go of her if they end up in a relationship

Unappreciated gift dilemma, advice?

My sister inlaw made a blanket for my sisters baby daughter. She hand painted it and put alot of effort in it. Problem is im pretty sure my sister is not going to like it because I know her tastes. She s in to beautiful and expensive stuff. Im sure that although she might not verbalize it, shell think the blanket is really, really ugly to the extent that im afraid of giving it to her. is there anything I could tell her to help her appreciate my sisterin laws effort? Theres no question the blanket is not of her taste at all. My sister in law lives in another country. What can I tell her to soften her response to the blanket?

What Chinese Ethnic Minority has a courtship ritual where the couple brush their hair?

There was a video of a Chinese Ethnic Group Dance competition where a male and female represented an ethnic group where it was customary for the loving couple to show their affection and devotion to one another by combing their hair together and of the hair of the partner with small white (bone?) combs - it was very beautiful and romantic and I cannot figure out which group of the 56 official ethnic groups in China the custom belongs to.

My dob is 14 th April, 1986.Time:10:30 a.m;Place: Chandannagar.Want ans from astrologers or people who know it?

I understand you mental condition under the circumstances. However, if you did not state the facts or the mishap in your life, I doubt if it is possible to know and predict about it or about any events, past, present or future either on the basis of your birth details or on the basis of your horoscope. The great sages of ancient India warned us of the follies of such faith in stars and planets. When astrology came to India from the middle-east countries, it was rejected by our sages on the ground that it is not useful to human life and society. The Vedas and the Upanishads condemned it stating that it takes a person to the darkest regions of ignorance. Srimad Bhagbat Gita teaches us to have faith on one's own self and on God alone. Religious texts irrespective of faith, creed or class do not deal or deliberate on stars and planets or the methods of calculation of human destiny from those inanimate objects in the sky. Great religious teachers, sadhus and saints such as Sankaracharyya, Madhabacharyya, Ramanuja, Mahavira, Gautam Buddha, Chaitanya Dev, Guru Nanak, Sri Ramakrishna, Guru Ramanand, Sant Kabir, Tailanga Swami and also great Tantric sadhaks like Bama Khsyapa, Kamalakanta and others did never preach or advice people on the basis of such faith. The geo-centric theory on which astrological horoscopes are drawn has long been proved wrong. But astrology till date is following the said method for drawing the birth chart. It is said that horoscopes are prepared with the help of astronomy. Yes. But its relation with astronomy or any other branch of science stops there. The birth chart is prepared on the erroneous notion that the earth is at the center and the sun, moon, all planets and the stars revolve round the earth. The various theories on the basis of which predictions are made have nor relation or basis on astronomy or any other branch of science. The theories of prediction, powers of stars, planets, zodiac signs, their mutual relation of friendship and enmity etc. etc/ have no logical or scientific basis. The subject stands on misconception, misinformation, imagination and faith bordering on superstition. I advise you to gather yourself, try to restore your calm and start your life afresh.

How can we dress, or show signs to a potential mate we wish to begin a courtship?

I mean, im not a bad guy, im single, i havent been around the block, very hetero, very level headed......i wish to find the same.....in a girl/women

Am I depressed? If so, what should I do?

I feel like a failure, a mere shadow of my former self. I have frequent suicidal thoughts, I wear all black, I am sadistic (do NOT call it emo, very different.), People at my school call me goth, I listen to screamo, death metal, horror metal, etc. I love horror movies/books, but not like paranormal activity, more like Nightmare on Elm Street, Children of the Corn, etc. Edgar Allen Poe is my favorite poet. When we wrote poems in language arts, mine all included death, suicide, and sadistic qualities. My room is painted black with Dark green in the corners, and is adorned With murderdolls, slipknot, black label society, etc. posters. I am tormented beyond belief at my school, and I have been in fights, I usually win because I barely feel pain, So when they hit me it drives me more.There are basically only three things keeping me from killing myself. Also, I am a Harry Potter fanatic, but I like the Death Eaters, Slytherin is my favourite house, and I always wanted Voldemort to kill Harry. So I just want to know, am I depressed? Should I seek help? Because as of right now I keep my feelings bottled up

Why are women obsessed with their thighs?

Us females we love our legs sometimes when we have nice legs we love to show them off because that might be the only proud things we love about our body. Or we love to move and everything with our legs. So showing off our legs and thighs are just natural to us it's just how we are built to do. We also know it makes guys turn into jelly so that's another reason to haha:6

HELP?!?!??!???!?!?!??!?!?

Whoa you've been misinformed! Clicker training is the complete OPPOSITE of cruel training methods. The way it works is the dog always gets a click and a treat together. But the clicker and treats are faded out over time as the puppy becomes more and more trained. Then, the clicker is not used only food and praise. The clicker is just a way of cementing in the dogs mind exactly what it did that got it the treat. It is a wonderful, effective, and kind method. It's used to train elephants, dolphins, horses, chickens etc... Clicker training is an all positive reward based method, no cruelty attached. If you are concerned about being mean to your dog then never, ever take him to training that uses shock collars, pinch collars, or harsh corrective methods. Good luck!

What happen to the store "Shoe World"?

What happen to the store "Shoe World"? Maybe they have been bought out by a larger company (i.e. Payless)? The reason I am asking is because I had worked for them back in 1993. It seems like shortly there after they were bought out by another company. I am trying to create a work history for a resume. I can not remember the last day I worked for them. So I have crossed a dilemma.

Christians, what age do you think it's appropriate for someone to start courting (biblical courtship)?

When they are emotionally, financialy able and metally mature enough to take on the role, they are applying for.....that being someone's soulmate

My bf's family's religion does not agree with our relationship... help?

I have been dating him for over five months now, and his family is four square Pentecostal, and they only believe in courtship. I am very family oriented, and I don't want our relationship to tear him and his family apart, especially because we can see this going somewhere, and they might be my family as well someday. His family likes me and accepts me as a person, and his older sister went so far as to say that I am perfect for hanging out with his parents. We never hid the fact that we were with each other, but now his parents have decided to step in. We are both graduating and starting college next year. I have no idea how to deal with this situation gracefully. Please help?

High school philosophy?

I'm going into high school next year and we are currently signing up for classes. I have a free semester and I was thinking if I should take philosophy? Or I can take an art class but I'm not artistic at all so this is my dilemma. Has anyone taken high school philosophy? What do you study? Is it interesting? do you regret taking it? Is it hard? Anything helps I don't know if I should sign up for it since there's a limited capacity. HELP

Am I a jerk for being annoyed at my girlfriend using her baby as a shield?

Afraid so yes, her FIRST priority is that child, not you. If you don't like where the relationship is going then get out of it. They are a packaged deal, take it or leave it. She's probably exhausted by her 2 year old; the "terrible two's" ring a bell? If she's indifferent about your feelings then there probably a chance this relationship has ran it's course. She sounds like she's looking for a HUSBAND not a boyfriend. Which might explain why she took the baby to daycare so she could see what kind of person you were at first then have her child be around you later on. It doesn't sound like you're liking this relationship anymore either. You don't sound like you're ready to be a father to this little boy nor do you want to be. It's nothing against you, it's just there a LOTS of fish in the sea, find one without a tadpole.

Scary / Creepy movies such as?

When A Stranger Calls , Amusment and Nightmare On Elm Street.I like movies with plot and not just random killing. I do like gore , noo old movies ! Remakes I like though . Oh and stories , not documenteries , so nothing like the excorsism of emily rose

How do I obtain forgiveness from an angry Mexican mother?

I have apparently offended the mother/family of the man I love and it is keeping us from having any sort of relationship. I have been told that it is a cultural dilemma. They are a Mexican-American family and are holding a grudge against me. This issue has lasted for months, and just gotten worse as time has passed. I love this family with all my heart! They are the coolest people I have ever met! How do I mend my relations with them as individuals, as well as my relations with them as a family unit?

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Camera dilemma - it's silly, but...?

I decided to get the SX210IS awhile ago, and started saving. Then I discovered the SX220HS and SX230HS, with better features, and I decided they might work better for me. But I still can't get over the beautiful gold color and better shape and layout of the 210... I really love it and I don't know if I can get the 220 now, even with better features! Is it worth it? What should I do?

OMG, Story Title Dilemma! Help?

So, I`m a big fan of fan fiction. Sincerest form of flattery, right? So, I`m writing a story about my hero, Stephen Colbert. I`m having a lot of trouble with a title. :( It`s a out the side of him that doesn`t get to show on camera. You know, the REAL Stephen Colbert. That sort of thing. It`s only got characters from his real life, but it mainly focuses on his relationship with his wife and children. Thank you sooo much. :)

Job dilemma-To go for it or not?

Ive been doing catering work that pays 6 quid an hour and I work max. 3/4 days a week. I need a second part time for the summer to save up enough money to move into a new flat, and go on a 2 week holiday. Im earning around 120/130 pounds a week, but I had a job offer come up thats at a charity call centre that pay 7 pounds an hour for the first few months before you get a raise (my bf worked for them and said he left when he felt like the company was sucking people dry of their money) I dont know if I could do that as a job but I have to decide quick as I said Id go meet up with them tomorrow and go for training saturday and sunday. What do you think?

As marriage and commitment goes out of favor in society, we will see that the whole dynamics of courtship b/w?

I would beg to differ where your evolutionary theories are concerned, birds and reptiles are far less evolved than the higher mammals (of which you have no example to provide as far as your male beauty idea is concerned).

Can someone please help me this Literature essay which I have to do for Monday?

I think they mean to look at how women's personality changed before and after marriage. Has the marriage taken a toll on them? Are they happier or more depressed now? Things like that

What cellphone should I get?

I want an affordable phone with nice camera quality, fast internet browsing, skype voice and chat capable.... which one should I get? I'm thinking of sony elm since really affordable but I searched that it doesn't support skype... :(

GIVE ME SOME SLASHER FILMS?? 10 pts for best ans.?

*New Year's Evil * Happy Birthday to Me *April Fool's Day, *Prom Night, *Christmas Evil, *Mother's Day, *Silent Night, *Deadly Night, *Funhouse, *Bloody Birthday, *The House on Sorority Row , *Hell Night, *Terror Train, *Visiting Hours, *Mortuary, *Alone in the Dark, *Madman, *Just Before Dawn, *Curtains, *Stage Fright, *Sleepaway Camp, *Intruder, *Slaughter High, *Night Warning

Dilemmas and decisions...wtd?

screw it. even though she is your mother she has never acted like it. possibly if she sees that you wont give in to her like you always do she will maybe open up. she will only hurt you and possibly your daughter. i would cut all contact with her until she learns to stop acting like a *****. she needs to go take classes or something

What in your opinion is the most scariest movie?

I have just seen paranormal activity, I have seen the sixth sense, seen all the childs plays with chucky the killer doll, seen all the nightmares on elm street, seen all the friday the 13ths and none of them scared me even remotely once oh and I have seen the excorist and the amityville horror So I need to know what is the most scariest movie?

How do I tell my brother I'm dating his best friend, who is also my friends younger brother?

prbbly dont tell him right now just wait until a good time, but if you HAVE to tell him, then just make a joke outa it somehow

Wireless network dropping out?

Just reset your router by unplugging the power supply about 10 seconds or more then back it again and you have a connections.

Should i tell or not to my girlfriend that i cheated her?

i had sex with another girl.i love her and i don't want to lose her.i didn't really liked it but i have this dilemma.i feel sorry for what i did.please help me

What NOT to bring on this vacation?

Every year I go to UP Michigan, and every year I have the same dilemma - I buy things, then they won't fit in my suitcase on the way home! Is there anything anyone could advise me NOT to take/help me minimize the amount of things I bring.

Should I break up with him?

So far as I can tell, just by your tone, you want to break up with Steve and just don't want to hurt him. There's no doubt he's probably a nice guy, but just because he's a nice guy doesn't mean he's the right guy for you. It sounds like you're looking for a more fun, exciting, and physical relationship, and I don't blame you. I don't think I could handle the intense Christian thing. So you should break up with Steve before things get too serious and live life the way you want to, and perhaps see what happens with Bill! Or just be open to any relationship. Single status has a lot of possibilities, go have fun :)

What's the ideal length of a courtship BEFORE a man and woman get engaged?

How long is the ideal length of time to date somebody before talking about engagements and marriage?

Is there a website for watching old horror movies?

I wanna watch classic horror movies like Halloween and Nightmare on Elm Street online but cannot seem to find anywhere on the web that has them available to watch.... Is there a website out there that would allow me to do so?

If you don't tell your husband you had a boyfriend before marriage, is it like cheating on him?

I have been married for about 6 months now. During our courtship, my husband asked me if i had a boyfriend before i met him. I denied it. But now, i have told him that i had a boyfriend long time before i met him. He thinks i'm a liar and i have betrayed his trust. I was just afraid to tell him before and spoil our relationship. Is hiding this fact as bad as cheating on him?

Is my grammar correct? :)?

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Is it okay to tell a guy this?

If a guy is trying to flirt with you and offering you drinks and dates, even though you've told him that your church does not permit dating but courtship, is it okay to tell him that you think he's trying to lure you into an unholy sexual relationship so that he can use you and dump you...and tell everyone at school what a slut you are? and that you're not going to fall for his garbage because guys like him belong in the dumpster? He's said he may marry you someday but you think that's just an empty promise as a means to get you in bed.

Birthday party for teen, which movie to watch?

My brothers turning 14 and people at the party will be 9-17 years old. I wanted to watch a horror movie A real scary one but i don't know which one yet any suggestions? (Right now its maybe Nightmare On Elm Street 2010).

SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION!?

You may wonder why it is in capitals but I have asked this question various times and have had no reply. I am in a dilemma whether to get in line skates or quad skates because I have that foot problem where I bear my weight on the inside of my feet. It isn't as bad now though. If i got inline skates do you think i would find them harder because of my foot problem?

Should i donate my collectibles?

I have a bunch of opened, horror movie based collectibles. Nightmare on Elm Street, Friday the 13th, Evil Dead, Halloween, Wish Master, as well as some game based ones, lots of Final Fantasy, Resident Evil, Rumble Roses and so on... My problem is I have grown out of it and want to get rid of them but everyplace I turn to only want new toys and I am not exactly sure that they would be considered "age appropriate" I was going to trash them but is that my only option? Is anyone here interested?