MARRIED A TAURUS MAN? THIS GIRL IS COMING ON STRONG TO HIM HELP?

Did you have any women that were vying for his affection and attention in the courtship/friendship process..what did you do to stand out? This girl is coming on strong and letting him know that she is the one and I am wanted to know do they like women that are more laid back or do they like women that are always around them and making it known that they like them? If they want the latter I can't compete with that. I don't kiss his bottom and I am not going to be around him chasing him down. This girl does that and it seems like now he is around her more I think? I don't know help